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Redefining Success: Eight Facets Of The Life You Desire

Forbes Coaches Council

Julie Hruska, elite high-performance coach, empowers individuals and companies to perform at their optimal levels. Powerful Leaders, LLC.

In today’s world, where material wealth and superficial achievements often take center stage, defining your personal meaning of success is a quest worth taking. As an elite high-performance coach, I’ve worked with founders, CEOs and other high-level executives who have achieved traditional forms of success yet come to me feeling empty, bewildered and disheartened because something is still missing. Over the years, I’ve realized that success is not merely about accumulating wealth or climbing the proverbial ladder but rather a profound experience of personal growth, purpose and impact that leads to inner peace, true happiness and deep fulfillment.

Success is not two-dimensional; it is a multifaceted jewel where each facet represents an essential aspect of your life. To experience all the joy, excitement and fulfillment life has to offer, you must consider:

1. Vision

You must define success and envision your ideal life before you can create it. Visualize your ideal career, relationships, health and financial state. Document your vision with specificity and commit to actions that bring it to life.

2. Purpose And Passion

True success is purposeful and ignites your passion for life. Identify and pursue endeavors that align with your values and create a sense of fulfillment that transcends monetary gains. Aim to wake up invigorated and inspired every day.

3. Growth

Success is rarely a smooth ascent. It involves overcoming numerous obstacles and detours. Your ability to embrace challenges, learn from setbacks and grow stronger through each experience is key. Resilience and personal growth go hand in hand, enabling you to evolve and adapt to the ever-changing landscape of your life. Identify the areas of your life that need change, then create a strategic, task-focused plan for personal development. Commit to taking one step toward your goals daily, as consistent action leads to profound growth over time.

4. Equanimity

Creating a harmonious flow throughout the areas of your personal and professional life is vital for sustained success and fulfillment. Neglecting your well-being or relationships in pursuit of career achievements often leads to burnout and disappointment. Instead, be mindful about nurturing your physical, mental and emotional health, as well as your relationships, to create the life you desire.

5. Gratitude And Humility

Success is not an entitlement; it is earned through consistent and strategic hard work. And those who achieve the highest levels of success often do so with gratitude and humility. Being thankful for your opportunities and acknowledging the contributions that others have given to help you reach your highest aspirations keeps you grounded and improves your relationships. Remember, success is not a solitary endeavor; it is a collective experience where the people around us often play a critical role. Consider sending one text message of gratitude daily to show the people in your life that you appreciate them.

6. Impact

Beyond your professional achievements, success is measured by the impact you have on your friends, loved ones and community. Embrace the opportunity to uplift people around you, give back to your community and support causes that matter. Leaving a positive impact on the world is a true sign of success.

7. Empowerment

The ability to empower others on their journey is a remarkable achievement. The most successful people understand that their success is directly proportional to the success of their colleagues and community. A leader's true legacy lies in the empowerment of those around them, fostering a culture of collaboration and enabling others to shine.

8. Peace

When all is said and done, you want to conduct yourself with integrity, in a manner that when you lay your head down at night, you feel that you’ve given your best and made the most of each precious day. When you do, you’ll experience a sense of peace that transcends all expectations. And this is how you know you’re truly successful.

Beyond the external trappings of wealth and status, achieving success is a quest that leads to self-discovery, personal growth and greater impact. There is more passion, more joy and more fulfillment available to you when you redefine success and work to make your vision a reality.

The peace, happiness and fulfillment you seek are within your reach. Define your own meaning of success, then go and embark on this grand adventure, remembering to treasure each moment, as success is not a destination but an ongoing expedition of becoming the best version of yourself and living life to its fullest.


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